No one ever tells you which decision to take especially when you are all grown up. They offer advice, guidelines but it all draws back to you, you have the final say. Choice usually seems as an easy thing but its usually full of uncertainties and doubts and sometimes its easy to know if you've made the right choice but sometimes is just out wright hard.
So then what to do? A choice has to be made after all!!!Somebody once said, its about making a choice you can live with. Can I live with the fact that I chose to major in Communication and not Media? Can I live with the fact that I chose to go down a certain path (good or bad)? Can I live with the fact that I chose to give up on what I want for the sake of pleasing others? The bottom line is that if you can live with your choice, you can handle the consequences that come along with that. And if you can't then know that you have to choose otherwise. But determining what you can live with requires wisdom. Wisdom like is it wise to give up on your dreams just coz you can live with the consequences? Certainly not!!!
Hence first of all, In decision making, put all the advice and guidelines given on mind, then write pros and cons of your decisions. Evaluate if you can live with your choice then lastly check if its a wise one.
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