LET'S TALK ABOUT SEX!!!!

Have you ever had a relationship going so well until your faced with the dilemma, Do we do it? Do we not? I will tell you first hand that i have had such a situation. Sex issue as we know it, isn't like what was before, No Sex before Marriage. The 21st Century has made it such that its wrong to be a virgin by the time one is 18 years of age. Many relationships are being broken because of the wrong concept of sex. Many people are taking it casually, no big deal especially on the male side as opposed to the female side whereby so many emotions are associated with having sex not to count of the various pre caution we must undertake to ensure we don't ruin our future by getting pregnant or worse still acquiring a deadly disease like HIV/AIDS.
I was in church on Sunday and the priest touched on a very sensitive topic on how us youth go all wrong on matters/issues concerning sex. We take it as an essential or defining part of a relationship. That we can't have a fun if sex is not on the picture. Better yet, we can't even have movie nights that don't end up in us having sex. But that shouldn't be the case at all because having sex has never been a prove of love as prostitutes would be in love with so many of their clients.
Yes the bible and the church put sex in the contest of marriage but we can confidently agree that we have moved past that and we need to discuss on how we view sex. And here is where I pose a question, How do you view sex?? Is it a pain killer, stress reliever, prove of love, to be titled as a player, prove of maturity or is it a strengthening of a bond in your relationship?? Because this really matters especially if you are in a relationship or planning to get into one.
The question of the right time to do it will then be answered by how you view sex. For instance, if its a stress reliever for you then the time for you will be when you are stressed. But would this really be the right time??!!! Absolutely not!!!! because they are certainly better ways to manage stress that don't necessarily have to involve sex. The same goes for proving to someone that you love them or worse to show that you are a player. This is because the end results would be regrets, bad breakups, unwanted pregnancies and abortions, diseases all arising from this.
So, I won't sit here and tell you whether to have sex or not, that's upon you but I will certainly advice you one thing, why don't you give it time especially if you are in a relationship. There's no hurry!!!! Let your relationship grow first, find other ways you can have fun, have movie nights in cinemas, talk about sex, your individual opinions and views, let the both of you be comfortable with each other first before getting in to the action and when you try this approach, I guarantee that sex will be more than just a casual affair. 

Have you Ever been Pranked???!!!!!!

Everyone has ever had a friend at least once in their life time. Some true friends others fake ones but we can all agree that friends are important. Some of our friends last a lifetime even with the bond growing so strong. So this made me really think of my friends especially those whom we studied with in school particularly, high school friends. I remember we were very close, I mean hang out together, kept each other company, booked sits for others during special occasions and met up for outings during school breaks. I mean we were such great friends. The fun thing I remember about my friends was that their ability to make fun out of things and I mean who could blame them as after all, we studied in a hell hole of a school with so many rules and so much studying as the order of the day. One particular double Tuesday day, (we called it that coz most subjects that day came in double, double English, double Maths, double Chemistry etc), My friends did a prank on me that i will never forget!!!!
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The prank went like this.....we were just from the Chemistry lab after doing some practicals now heading to the English lesson that followed after. I was the last one to enter the class when one of my friends told me, "Kate you have something on your back". I asked her what it was but she didn't answer then my other classmate said it was a snail. Now that sounds not serious in a situation where one was not afraid of snails but I was terrified actually. I didn't care if the English teacher was there or not, I just kept screaming, remove it!!! remove it!!! But no one did. They all said they were afraid of it. I was almost at the point of crying when I asked the teacher to please remove the insect from my sweater. The teacher moved near to where i was standing behaving like a crazy lady and checked my sweater. Shaking her head, she told me that there was nothing in my sweater and asked me to take a sit or I would receive a punishment. My paranoid self couldn't take that, so i instead gathered the courage and removed my sweater only to realize that there was nothing...not even a small insect let alone a snail....I was so embarrassed remembering my funny dances and expressions earlier. Then as i was just settling down my friends shouted, "Happy April's Fools". I didn't know if i was excited or mad, but most of all i was both because the class was busting into shouts of laughter uncontrollably.
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Anyways, Because of that prank we never learned that day and the teacher ended up giving us an assignment to do.
It may have been kind of a serious prank which I almost got punished for but if it happened again, I would definitely never change a thing!!!! And up-to date we still laugh with my friends about the whole thing after all we are friends for life!!!!