The Other Face of Beauty

Many women till date have not yet discovered the beauty that they possess since birth. And that is hair beauty. Hair beauty to a woman like a complement to their face…..You have ever noticed that a woman’s face changes with the different hair styles she puts on. An average woman finds a hair style that suits her and starts putting it on more regularly and as time goes by she discovers more and more styles that rhyme with her. She also gathers other ideas from other women or rather her hair dresser.

The thing I would say I love most about hair beauty is that it gives a variety of options, You feel that your hair is too small, then you can easily put on braids, baby locks, plaint lines, “matuta” as they are popularly known and many more. If it’s long they you can comb it as it is, put on weave, or plaint different styles with your hair. Thanks to these modern times that we are having human hair, more weaves and more hair styles that give women of different kinds of hairs the opportunity to style their hairs as they desire.

I looked at my photos when I was young and I saw how I looked when am bald and I look funny and different, the kind that I don’t like. So I took upon myself to grow my hair and never cut it again. Not that it was all cupcakes and ice creams, but even when it got to my nerves and I really felt that I would cut it down, I remembered my “no hair” photos and the time I have spent growing it. Coz I can tell you full proof that it was a real struggle, From natural hair to chemical hair to chemical cut hair and back to normal hair, That instantly changed my mind and till date am so proud of my hair. I used to think only long hairs were pretty and desirable but I have grown to like my small, medium hair. Not only is it easily to style but it fits many hair styles.

Not that am saying deciding to go bald is a sin or something, because others also look pretty when they do so but am urging you to consider also this other option of keeping your hair.

As chances are that it won’t disappoint!!!!

Tackling Change

Normally change is boring. How do you tell me one day to just start living differently?? It sucks!!! But what would life be without change??? We need change so as to better our lives, we need change to work on ourselves, we need change so as to stop living normally, we need change to grow and lastly we need change so that we can learn and see the better things that lie on the other side of life.
We all encounter change in our day to day lives, from relationships, schools, leadership, workplace etc. We can’t possibly avoid it as it is part of us but what we can do is learn how to deal with it. Someone said, “Life is 90% what happens to us and 10% how we react to it.”
And I can surely say dealing with it is not as easy as it sounds but we can at least try. Start by taking each day at a time, if it’s a relationship change start by accepting the hurt and allow yourself to feel it because after you go through the hurt is when you can truly heal. If it’s a new job, understand first what goes on, on daily basis and never be afraid to ask where you feel lost. If you are a new leader, value the importance of teamwork and knowing those whom you lead, understanding their differences and appreciating their different personalities.
Someone also said, “It gets hard first before it gets easy but you must get through the hard part first.” This describes change in few words because after you get through the hard part you will see that it’s all worth it.
After all change is hard at the beginning, difficult in the middle but gorgeous at the end.