Tackling Change

Normally change is boring. How do you tell me one day to just start living differently?? It sucks!!! But what would life be without change??? We need change so as to better our lives, we need change to work on ourselves, we need change so as to stop living normally, we need change to grow and lastly we need change so that we can learn and see the better things that lie on the other side of life.
We all encounter change in our day to day lives, from relationships, schools, leadership, workplace etc. We can’t possibly avoid it as it is part of us but what we can do is learn how to deal with it. Someone said, “Life is 90% what happens to us and 10% how we react to it.”
And I can surely say dealing with it is not as easy as it sounds but we can at least try. Start by taking each day at a time, if it’s a relationship change start by accepting the hurt and allow yourself to feel it because after you go through the hurt is when you can truly heal. If it’s a new job, understand first what goes on, on daily basis and never be afraid to ask where you feel lost. If you are a new leader, value the importance of teamwork and knowing those whom you lead, understanding their differences and appreciating their different personalities.
Someone also said, “It gets hard first before it gets easy but you must get through the hard part first.” This describes change in few words because after you get through the hard part you will see that it’s all worth it.
After all change is hard at the beginning, difficult in the middle but gorgeous at the end.